An ex-husband is a sore subject for any divorced woman. Some ladies find it painful to remember a failed marriage or inappropriate behavior of their ex-spouse, and some men may regularly remind themselves or ruin the life of their ex-spouses. One way or another, a broken marriage does not pass without a trace and remains in the memory for a lifetime, even if you subsequently managed to connect your destiny with another person.
Esotericists say that marriage is a complex energy system. Everyone dreams of an ideal union, but not everyone manages to maintain an energetic connection and carry love throughout their lives. It is known that any marriage is based on the exchange of energy flows. The spouse is trying to take from the other half what he himself does not have, and in return give what is missing to his loved one.
If some level is lacking, the source of energy may dry up, so the flows cannot unite, as a result, a crisis or even a rupture may arise in the couple. Therefore, it is so important to choose as your husband or wife a person who is closest in spiritual development.
When a couple breaks up, the energy does not go away, so we feel the invisible presence of the former partner. This phantom pain bothers a person for a long time, especially if people periodically maintain contact while raising common children. Some women even see their ex-husbands in their dreams at night. What can such a dream tell about?
Dreaming about ex-husband
It happens that you have long lost contact with your ex-husband and even managed to get married again, but your first spouse unceremoniously bursts into your dreams and deprives you of peace. The nature of such a dream can be understood, but there are several interpretations on this matter.
Perhaps you haven't completed some things or haven't resolved problems with your ex-spouse. This could be alimony or the inability to fully forgive and understand a man. Perhaps you are still offended and believe that he was the culprit of the divorce. Interpreters advise talking with your ex-husband. Sometimes talking helps to cope with feelings.
There is another version about a dream with an ex-husband in the lead role. It is possible that the day before you came across something that was somehow connected with it. For example, they caught the smell of his perfume, heard his name, saw a person similar to him, maybe someone said his favorite phrase, or his favorite song started playing in a cafe.
You might not remember this, but on a subconscious level the information was “anchored”, so in night vision everything you experienced during the day came out. What to do? If you still harbor a grudge against this person, try to let go of negative emotions, time will pass and such images will no longer bother you, the subconscious will not perceive all the clues associated with your ex-spouse.
Some interpreters associate the dream with previous mistakes. Perhaps you still have to deal with the consequences, which is why you dream about everything connected with your past life.
In addition, the dream indicates dissatisfaction with life and speaks of your fears of change and everything new.
If you are currently married, the dream indicates that something is bothering you in your marriage. Perhaps you are not 100% sure about your current spouse.
Sometimes a dream indicates your fatigue or apathy, or, conversely, speaks of increased vitality and increased excitability.
For a free lady, the dream promises the beginning of a new love and a journey.
If your ex-husband appears in your dreams very often, it is likely that he cannot get out of the woman’s head in reality. It is possible that you regret the breakup and would like to return everything back. You can return your husband to the bosom of the family, or you can forget about his existence forever.
The ex-spouse in your dream could do whatever he wanted. The interpretation itself also depends on his actions. Let's turn to authoritative sources for details.
Miller's Dream Book
If in a dream you made love with your ex-spouse, expect an aggravation of a quarrel that you had in the recent past.
Have you kissed your ex-husband? Soon you are going to be very amazed by something.
If in a dream you quarrel with your ex-passion, joyful events will soon happen.
If in a dream you break up again, you will soon meet a person, but your relationship cannot be called successful.
Troubles and difficulties are coming if in the dream the ex-spouse was angry or ugly. If your ex-hubby was cheerful and handsome, success awaits you.
A naked ex-spouse in a dream foreshadows a new business for you, but you will find yourself in an ambiguous position.
If your ex-husband played the guitar, a serious illness will soon overtake you.
If the ex-husband was screaming at the top of his lungs, he was currently in some kind of trouble.
If in a dream you scolded your ex-husband, very soon obstacles will appear on the way, which will be almost impossible to cope with.
If the sight of your ex-husband frightens you, you will soon worry about the problems of your loved one. Your help will be in vain. A loved one can turn into your enemy.
If in the dream your ex-husband was caring, affectionate, and spoke pleasant words, people behind your back condemn your desire for freedom and independence.
If you dreamed about your ex-husband’s apartment, you are worried about intimate troubles.
It’s good if in your dream you were divorcing your ex-husband again. Fate will give free women a chance to experience true love, and for married ladies the dream promises a harmonious family life.
Vanga's Dream Book
If in a dream you again, as if nothing had happened, lived happily under the same roof with your ex-husband, you have let go of grievances and complaints, your past life and mistakes will no longer bother you.
If a former lover appears in a dream drunk, with a week’s worth of stubble on his face and a torn shirt, at the moment he is feeling very bad. He may be depressed or low on energy. He realized his mistakes and regrets the past. He has an idea to fix everything, but he doesn’t know how to do it.
Also, a dream with an ex-husband indicates that the dreamer herself is still finding it difficult to cope with the loss. In reality, she worries and yearns for the past time, wants to return to the relationship. It was probably the husband himself who initiated the breakup, which is doubly offensive and unpleasant.
If you dreamed of your ex-husband in tandem with his mother, your ex-mother-in-law regrets the divorce. For her, you are the most suitable woman for her beloved son.
Tsvetkov's Dream Interpretation
This dream interpreter considers the appearance of an ex-lover a manifestation of upcoming negative events. A man, according to the interpretation, carries aggression within himself and therefore predicts bad things. It is not necessary to remember all the details, because even if there are no details, the ex means something unpleasant:
- if you accidentally bump into your spouse, get ready for anxiety and serious problems;
- a showdown warns of the possibility of making a hasty, wrong decision;
- meeting your husband after a long separation promises financial troubles or illnesses of loved ones;
- flirting indicates that you will quarrel with a new partner or reconsider the need for a relationship with him;
- if in a dream you laugh at your lover, then in reality you yourself may be attacked by enemies;
- seeing the ex-spouse return after separation predicts misfortune. There will be many more problems if you broke up badly and the relationship did not work out from the very beginning. Beware of the black stripe.
More on the topic: Dream police
Psychologists and dream books can interpret what they see in night visions in different ways. However, in most cases, all interpreters agree that the past relationship did not end well, so you cannot let it go. Certain situations involving an ex may appear in dream books with different meanings. If you are sure that the dream is not connected with your subconscious, look for the answer in one of the above interpreters.
Kissing in a dream with your ex-husband
If in a dream you kissed your ex-spouse, you have complexes that you need to fight. The dream indicates that you have not yet closed the door to the past, and therefore you are missing out on chances to build your personal happiness.
If in a dream you yourself kissed your ex-spouse, soon an obstacle will suddenly appear in your way. If you are in a relationship, then you lack tenderness and romance in it. Perhaps you cannot give free rein to your emotions, you feel constrained.
If in a dream your ex-husband himself initiated the kiss, you will soon meet true love, you will be able to build a strong relationship with this person and create a happy family.
The dream also promises the dreamer gifts and surprises in reality. It is possible that you will be forced to finish unfinished business. You will feel unprecedented lightness as soon as you solve your problems.
Some interpreters are convinced that such a dream clearly indicates that your ex-husband often remembers the time spent together. He remembers you every minute.
If you experienced pleasure during the kiss, your ex-husband is in danger or in trouble. He needs your support.
A passionate kiss in a dream indicates the sensual nature of the dreamer, who loves men and sex.
If in a dream you were unable to kiss your ex-spouse, internal fears are preventing you from achieving your goals.
I dreamed about sex with my ex-husband
If in a dream you did not like intimacy with your ex-husband, you need to keep your emotions under control. Your words and actions cause outrage among the people around you. Therefore, soon your close people may turn away from you. The dream also indicates a feeling of guilt that torments you.
If you enjoyed sex with your ex, you need to deal with the shortcomings before starting a new relationship.
If you lie in bed for a long time after sex, very soon you may become a victim of deception.
Sometimes litter promises you a renewed conflict with relatives. Learn to compromise, be patient and understanding.
Argue with him in a dream
If in a dream you argued with your ex-spouse, you still have unspoken complaints against him. There is a feeling of resentment in your heart, and you don’t know how to deal with it.
According to other interpretations, a quarrel in a dream with a former spouse promises the dreamer positive changes in life.
Some interpretations relate to the feelings of the dreamer herself. You probably still love your ex-spouse and expect that sooner or later he will come crawling to you with an apology.
The dream suggests that you may rush to make a decision. Be more reasonable and thorough.
If your ex-husband swore at you and you remained silent, you will soon find yourself in a difficult situation through your own fault.
Where did it happen?
Why do you dream about your ex naked? Very often the dreamer will be surprised and embarrassed upon awakening. And the dream books promise her a period of major financial complications. But there are other interpretations:
- in the shower - many new suitors will appear;
- on the beach - the girl is jealous of him;
- drunk - postpone making a responsible decision;
- in Domovina - legal troubles;
- at the table - your life has become routine.
Fight him in a dream
If in a dream you beat your ex-spouse, you still have not forgiven him for the breakup. He probably hurt you painfully with his departure, and you dream of taking revenge on him in reality. It is necessary to get rid of negative thoughts and emotions; they slow down your progress and prevent you from entering into a new relationship.
The dream indicates that feelings for your ex-husband have not yet cooled down. You want to renew your relationship with him and return your former love.
Sometimes a dream indicates that your new chosen one is overly jealous and hot-tempered. You dream of feeling free, free from his pressure.
Dreaming of a drunk ex-husband
If your ex-husband was drunk in a dream, he is very worried about your breakup, he misses your words and advice. Relationships with family members will be very difficult if a drunk ex-spouse pestered you, cursed or behaved inappropriately.
It is possible that the ex-husband simply got into some kind of trouble.
In addition, very soon quarrels and conflicts may occur due to your fault. Keep your emotions to yourself, otherwise you will be in trouble.
Sometimes a dream promises the dreamer a new relationship.
If a drunk ex-spouse came to your home in a dream, you will soon quarrel with him or with your current partner.
If he wanted to have sex with you, you have problems in the intimate sphere.
Sometimes the plot promises you illness or chronic illnesses will make themselves felt very soon.
Sometimes a dream hints to the dreamer that she is too carefree and frivolous, is too carried away by novels, without thinking about building a serious relationship.
Ex-husband returned in a dream
If your ex-husband came back to you in a dream, it does not mean that he will do this in reality. The dream is a reflection of your hope to renew your relationship with your first spouse. You want to return to the past, so you dream of a similar plot.
Some interpreters are convinced that if your ex-spouse returned and started arguing with you, then soon he may actually appear on your doorstep. You yourself dream of his return, so wait for the prodigal husband.
The dream may indicate that you yourself wanted to break off the relationship with your husband, and now you constantly feel guilty. Emotional experiences do not leave you even in your night dreams. Perhaps the new relationship is not going well, so your ex-spouse “visits” your dreams.
Nudist
Why do you dream that your old lover undressed in front of everyone? Due to the many variables in the current situation, the dreamer may face poverty. But she will still find a way to increase her capital again, even if it is not easy.
If in your dreams you were naked, like your ex, then interpreters regard this as a bad omen. In reality, you will not only go broke, but also lose hope and give up trying to get out of this hole.
Dreaming about my ex-dead husband
If you dreamed of your deceased ex-husband, you will soon be desperately struggling with difficulties. In addition, the dream indicates a threat looming over you.
If your deceased husband hugged and kissed you in a dream, you will soon be invited to a romantic meeting. It makes sense to hope for a more serious relationship with a new man.
If the deceased gave you something, you will soon cope with all the troubles.
If in a dream you offered something to a deceased person, financial problems, illnesses, and a lot of boring and exhausting things await you.
Pretend or open up?
Why do you dream about the naked body of your former lover? Miller's dream book connects this vision with difficulties in relationships. Try to analyze the behavior of others. It is possible that there is no point in pretending, and people will accept you for who you are.
But Miss Hasse’s dream book urges you not to show your true nature, so that enemies cannot destroy the dreamer’s good name by making some dubious information about you public.
