The ideal home according to Feng Shui: how to attract money, love and prosperity

In the modern world, where we are obliged to be in constant motion, to be completely involved in work and everyday affairs, there is absolutely no time left to create harmonious relationships. But this aspect of life is extremely important.

Having relieved the fatigue of a hard day, you want to find yourself in the arms of a loved one, but not everyone can boast of such an opportunity. Even with such a relationship, not every couple manages to maintain balance and idyll. In such cases, many turn to experienced specialists to establish and maintain this harmony. But there are times when the time is right for a person to start a family, but for some reason it is not possible to meet a compatible person. The Chinese science of Feng Shui, in combination with other procedures, can help with this.

Tidy up your bedroom

A single bed conveys to the Universe that you are focused on loneliness: replace it with a double bed.

Look what the bed looks like. She must have an attractive and seductive appearance. An unsightly, sloppily made bed with ugly bed linen are signs of a lack of personal life.

There should be nothing in the room that reminds you of loneliness. Furniture and accessories - armchairs, ottomans, floor lamps, sconces - must be paired.

There should be no thorny plants or objects with sharp corners in the bedroom - these are sources of negative energy. Fill the room with round objects. Do not keep dry or artificial flowers in the bedroom - they symbolize ashes and interfere with the emergence of relationships.

Prepare a place for your future partner. Clear out a few shelves in your wardrobe. If you sleep on half of an unassembled sofa, unfold it at night.

Buy items that symbolize eroticism: silk bed linen, a beautiful peignoir, candles with the scent of chocolate, roses, myrrh.

Accessories will attract the energy of love and help hold it.

Cat

The Egyptians revered cats and buried them according to human traditions. In their understanding, this sacred animal was a symbol of love, fertility, home and motherhood.

Religious admiration for cats has faded into oblivion, but admiration for these noble and graceful animals is still alive. Residents of Japan and China decorate their homes with the Maneki-neko (cat with a raised paw) talisman, symbolizing success and financial prosperity. An animal with a raised tail brings optimism and good mood, and a cat with a kitten brings happy motherhood.

Rearrange the furniture

There is a saying in China: rearrange 28 objects in your house and your life will change. Bulky objects, such as furniture, affect the flow of energy in the house. Furniture must be positioned correctly. Before you move, clean out your home.

In Feng Shui, liberation from the old is important. Old things carry negative energy and memories - they have no place in the house. Take your time and get your apartment in order. Throw away junk you don't need. Clear out the cabinets and dust them.

The house transmits information to the Universe. New energy means new acquaintances. Do not block the energy path with old unnecessary objects that form rubble.

When cleaning your home, don't overdo it. Leave everything that makes you happy and once brought you happiness, even if it’s old items. For example, children's albums with drawings. Exceptions are things left over from old relationships. Hide or throw away photographs, letters and mementos you shared together. They block the path of new love.

Get rid of accessories, paintings, photographs and posters with images of lonely people or animals, as they carry the energy of loneliness. Replace posters of posing but lonely movie stars with pictures of men and women hugging, forming happy couples.

Feng Shui for marriage - opinion from an expert

My friend, a psychologist, is of the same opinion about how to get married according to Feng Shui. If a single woman is sure that the problem lies with men, this is a wrong point of view. Life will present one disappointment after another to those who are always looking for a catch.

If you live with the thought that happiness is just around the corner , the result will not be long in coming. As soon as it is possible to displace the negative attitude, men will begin to vying with each other to show interest. Therefore, it is not reasonable to deny the influence of energy and symbolism on your destiny. Positive statements, for example, that the men around you are gallant and caring, can radically change the situation.

Thus, turning to Feng Shui can be a turning point in a woman's life. With its help, even the question of how to save the family from divorce is resolved for married people. Don't be afraid to try, you deserve to become better and find your happiness. Big things start with small things, so start changing your life right now. Write in the comments what positive affirmations can you dedicate to yourself?

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Balance Yin and Yang

Feng Shui masters are unanimous - mutual love can enter the house where male and female energies are balanced. In the apartments of single women there is too much feminine yin energy, and in the apartments of single men there is not enough of it.

If any energy prevails in the house, it needs to be diluted with the opposite one.

The apartment is hung with posters of kittens and lonely beauties, the interior is decorated in pink tones and bottles are placed - a clear overabundance of feminine energy. Dilute it with a masculine look and bring into the interior items that a man would like.

The room should not be filled with children's toys. In an interior where everything reminds you of childhood, mature relationships will not arise.

So, if you want to find a permanent partner who would like to share a home with you, add items to the interior that he might like.

Zone activation

1. To attract happiness and harmony into your life, you need to balance the energy of Yin and Yang. It is impossible for the interior of a lonely girl’s house to be filled with exclusively feminine elements. The appearance of a man in such a room is unlikely. For balance, add Yang energy. Remove unnecessary ruffles, floral patterns, and numerous figurines. A man, on the contrary, needs to add something feminine.
2. Buy matching items, such as a couple of cups, animal figurines, and add a second pillow to the bed.
3. Hang a picture of a couple in love. Single women can hang a picture with peonies; they attract romantic energy. But after a man appears, it must be removed, since excessive romance can harm the relationship.
4. Add red color to the sector. Ideally, you can paint the wall altogether. If you don't like the red color, you can paint the inside of the items. Or put a red cloth under the mattress.
5. The bed must be a double bed, with a full mattress.
6. Make sure that the sleeping area is not reflected in mirror surfaces.
7. Remove objects with the image of water from the bedroom. Because water cools the senses.
8. Place red or orange candles in the corner of the marriage and light them regularly.

Arrange the talismans of love

Some people believe that according to Feng Shui, the love zone is in the bedroom. Such people find the southwestern part of the bedroom and try to activate it.

This opinion is wrong. Love is not just sex. In Feng Shui, love is associated with marriage and family life, so you need to take a broader approach to solving the problem of loneliness.

The zone of love and marriage according to Feng Shui is the southwestern part of the house or apartment. Here is the energy responsible for the personal life of the people living in the house.

Using a compass, find the southwestern part of the apartment and put it in perfect order. Keep it clean and well lit. Remove things with sharp corners - they scare away potential partners. Make the southwestern sector of the apartment an island of love and romance, and in return it will attract love.

How to use Feng Shui to attract love

To find and attract love, people who dream of finding their “soul mate” often resort to feng shui for help. Many of them are often looking for an answer to the question “How can feng shui attract love?”

So, if you are mentally ready to activate love, then first take a few simple but important actions. First of all, remove everything that will interfere with your romantic affair. Get rid of old things that you associate with old attachments. Perhaps you keep letters from your former lovers, photographs together, some memorable souvenirs, jewelry. Hide them deep, or even throw them away! Storing items that bear the imprint of an old relationship will, of course, not help in any way, but will only prevent new love from coming to you.

The abundance of feminine objects and attributes in the house contributes to an imbalance of “Yin energy,” which is not at all good for relationships. Especially a large number of plush toys. They, of course, look pretty cute, but are only appropriate up to a certain age. The bed of a young girl, and even more so of a mature woman, strewn with soft toys - bears, cats, dogs and other animals, evokes a feeling not of tenderness, but of bewilderment. This is one of the signs indicating why a girl is lonely and cannot meet her “other half.” For balance, add a little “Yang energy”, namely a few brutal masculine attributes.

Feng Shui Beds to Attract Love

Good bedroom feng shui to attract love is also very important. If you sleep on a single bed, then by doing this you make it clear that you do not accept anyone into your personal life.

Change it and put in a wider double!

It is good if the bed is not placed against the wall, but so that access to it is possible from both sides. Then there will be more ways for Qi energy to fill you with its beneficial power, which means it will be much easier to attract love using Feng Shui means.

You can read more feng shui tips for the bedroom here

Think positively

Act as if love has already come into your life and become a reality. You need to signal to the world around you that you are completely ready to let this bright feeling into your heart. To attract love, affirmations - short positive phrases - will help. You can on various topics.

How to attract love with the Flower of Romance

We move from simple ones to more complex methods - we will use knowledge from the Bazi birth chart. This ancient system studies the fate of a person, his life path and luck. The essence of the method that we will use is to find and activate the personal Flower of Romance, or Peach Flower, as it is also called. It enhances attractiveness, which increases the chances of romantic success!

How to find your personal Flower of Romance to attract love using Feng Shui? Personal Peach Flower is one of the four animals of the Chinese horoscope, it can be the Rooster, Horse, Rabbit or Rat.

Using the calculator on the site, you can calculate the pillars of fate and determine your Flower of Romance.

Example. If you were born on the day or year of the Pig, then your “romantic flower” is the Rat.

Each of the animals corresponds to a certain direction of the cardinal points, and the Peach Flower is responsible for special “romantic” places in the house.

The Peach Flower does not capture the entire 45 degree side of the world, but only the very central part of 15 degrees. Therefore, the place where you need to activate will be located strictly in the central part of the sector.

If you don’t know how to determine the sectors in your apartment, you can first read how to find the desired sector using the 24-horizon method.

The Peach Blossom animals occupy the following areas:

• Rat - center of the northern sector C-2 - 352.6 - 7.5 degrees
• Rabbit - center of the eastern sector B-2 - 82.6 - 97.5 degrees
• Horse - center of the southern sector Yu-2 - 172.6 - 187.5 degrees
• Rooster - the center of the western sector Z-2 - 252.6 - 277.5 degrees

After you determine the desired sector, place a vase with water and beautiful fresh flowers there, but not artificial ones! Be sure to change the water and flowers constantly so that they are always alive and unfading. And as soon as you find love, consider that your Romance Flower has worked successfully and remove the vase immediately!

Important! This method is best used only for searching for new acquaintances. If you already have a regular partner and you want to give a new impetus to the relationship, then you should use the Flower of Romance carefully. It will, of course, enhance your attractiveness, but strangers may also show increased attention. And this contributes to jealousy and quarrels! It is better to use other feng shui methods to improve relationships.

Feng Shui Flying Star to attract love

The next way to use Feng Shui for love is very effective - to use the Flying Stars method. According to him, there are special energies - love and romance, which change their location every month, as if “flying” from one part of the house to another. That’s why they are called “Flying Stars”.

So love, even in this regard, is a rather fickle thing! So, how can you capture these beneficial energies and apply Feng Shui knowledge to love?

The most suitable stars for romantic purposes are “Green 4 - the star of attractiveness”, “Purple 9 - the star of joy”, “White 1 - the star of communication”. They will help you attract love into your life if you use them correctly.

To help feng shui attract love, favorable energies need to be activated. The simplest and most effective way is to more often visit those rooms where the flying stars that interest us have “arrived”. Choose one of the stars - “4” or “9” or “1”, and if possible, then use the corresponding sector of the house - put up a bed and sleep, or at least stay there more often.

In addition to this, determine your Gua number and personal favorable directions. The personal direction “Yan-Nian” promotes harmonious communication and happy relationships.

Unlike the previous method with the Flower of Romance, the effect of the Flying Star extends completely to the entire room. It will be especially fortunate if these romantic zones coincide for you - then from Feng Shui you will immediately receive double energy for love - the energy of the Flower of Romance and the energy of the Flying Star!

A place with favorable stars can also be found in a separate room, if you divide it into separate zones. This is called "small tai chi". So, the way to activate the flying star is very flexible!

Make sure that there are no negative objects in the appropriate sectors near your home, such as a garbage dump, an old dying tree, destroyed buildings, ugly holes or a power pole. Only in the presence of a favorable external environment will romantic energies manifest their best properties.

You can find out information about where the flying stars will be from the Feng Shui forecast on our website. Every month in the “Forecast by Sector” section I post information about which sectors are the most favorable for a given month. You can freely subscribe to the Feng Shui forecast, and be constantly updated about the movements of the romantic energies of Feng Shui.

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Walks and wishes in “romantic destinations”

To search for romantic relationships and attract love, you can also use the ancient art of Qi Men, which translates as “Wonderful Gate”.

According to him, special energies are formed in space for a very short time, under the influence of which a person becomes more attractive. You can activate romantic energies by movement, going for a “walk” in their direction. By regularly taking romantic walks to the Miraculous Gate, you can improve your luck in love.

Another way is to find a suitable direction and stand with your back to it, making mental wishes on the desired topics. Wishes can be made anywhere. The main thing is that there are no distractions. For this, the inner mood, concentration, and one-pointedness of thoughts are very important. It is important not to think about outsiders, but only about your goal.

So, you have become acquainted with ways in which Feng Shui can attract love into your life. Use them together. Please note that Feng Shui methods are an amplifier and accelerator to action. So, if you have already decided to build your happiness, then don’t just sit in a certain place and place various objects, water containers and fountains, but also help Feng Shui attract love with your own efforts - be more active, get to know the opposite sex more boldly - and good luck to you in your personal life!

Cactus will provoke quarrels

A large number of cacti in the house can cause excessive aggressiveness. Needle plants, according to psychologists, are associated with negativity and can influence the emotional state of household members. Extroverts are especially susceptible to this. Cacti pose no threat to calm introverts.

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