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What is ostuda and its types

Secret ill-wishers can put a chill on your spouse.
Cooling or turning away is a directed effect using magic, the purpose of which is to cool the feelings between lovers or spouses, to distance them from each other and parting. Such a ritual is reminiscent of damage, with the only difference being that it is aimed at the breakdown of love relationships.

Cooling is divided into the following types:

1. Rushing - used most often to attract the attention of a man you like who has a girlfriend or wife. Such a ritual affects partners in such a way that they begin to constantly quarrel even for no apparent reason, which leads to the collapse of the relationship.
2. Dryness - eliminates attachment to a partner. In most cases, this ritual is used by wives in relation to their husbands who have a mistress. It helps to cool passion and sexual attraction to a rival. This ritual is also used by third parties who are interested in breaking such relationships.

What is a lapel

A couple in love has a common energy resource. Over the years of their rapprochement and communication, their flows mixed and merged together. And this is such a powerful exchange of energy that when analyzing the aura, you can see 2 similar pictures. And the lapel, love spell, suction, binding - these are parasitic programs that are sent to the outer shell of the couple and should disrupt the normal functioning of the exchange of energies. Based on the results of their actions, the couple may separate for unknown reasons that appear out of nowhere.

The word lapel consists of two parts, which are aimed at removing a husband or wife from the family. This ritual can be performed not only because of the desire to get a loved one in your arms, but simply because of envy of the love of others and the desire for the couple to break up. Signs of a lapel In addition to the intuitive definition of a lapel, it can be diagnosed when the following symptoms appear in your couple:

• a sharp change in attitude towards you for unknown reasons;
• poor health, constant headaches and sudden illness with serious illnesses;
• lack of intimate relationships;
• sleep disorder in a loved one, constant irritability and short temper;
• the appearance of bad habits (smoking, alcohol abuse, etc.);
• manic attacks and fears;
• the appearance of strange objects in unexpected places (threads, wax, needles, salt in pockets, tufts of hair, etc.).

Problems in the family can also be the cause of simple disagreements, fatigue from each other, due to domestic or material problems. But, if signs of lapel guidance appear, you should begin to neutralize it. Until he destroyed family life and harmed the mental and physical health of his loved one. You can remove the lapel from your husband with the help of prayers and with the support of the Higher Powers.

The main signs of the presence of magical influence

Before removing the lapel, you need to make sure that it is there.

Excessive aggression can be a sign of bewitchment.

You can recognize this by the following signs:

1. Aggression. Outbursts of causeless rage and aggressive behavior appear more and more often, despite the fact that this was not observed before.
2. Disagreements and misunderstandings in a couple.
3. Passivity and lack of interest on the part of the man.
4. Deterioration of sleep, frequent nightmares, anxiety and restlessness, insomnia.
5. Impaired potency and lack of sexual desire, which is manifested by indifference to one’s partner.
6. Craving for alcohol, drugs, cigarettes.
7. Depression, apathy.
8. Deterioration of health (decreased immunity, heart pain, memory loss and decreased visual acuity).

The more time passes from the moment the lapel was made, the stronger it will become. In this case, it will be more difficult to remove it. Having noticed the slightest changes in your husband’s behavior, it is advisable to diagnose colds at home.

How to recognize a lapel?

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The lapel is a magical effect, the purpose of which is to cool and completely destroy the love relationship between two people. The action of this ritual resembles the action of ordinary damage, the only difference is that the lapel is directed towards the relationship.

Before you start removing the lapel from your beloved man, I recommend that you make sure it is there. You can recognize a lapel by several symptoms:

• sudden cooling of feelings on the part of a loved one. Love, tenderness and care are replaced by hostility, hatred and anger. On this basis, the husband can leave home and family for the woman who rejected him without any explanation for his action;
• quarrels and scandals becoming more frequent between wife and husband . Most often this happens if there is a separation. Conflicts arise out of nowhere;
• apathy. The spouse becomes uninitiated and distant and may become depressed;
• sleep problems. The withdrawn person begins to be haunted by nightmares and dreams with negative content, and insomnia may develop;
• problems in the intimate sphere of marital relations . The husband cools off towards his wife sexually and becomes passive;
• addiction to bad habits (alcoholism, drug addiction);
• health problems.

If, after taking a closer look at your beloved spouse, you conclude that there was a negative magical effect, then the most correct thing in this case would be to remove the lapel. You can cope with this task on your own. The only condition is that you do not tell anyone about your intentions and carefully follow all the requirements of the instructions.

Diagnosis of colds at home

There are various methods for diagnosing colds, which include:

1. Diagnosis by photo using a candle. To do this, you need to buy a thin candle in the church and take photographs of all family members, including your own. Draw a lit candle around each photo three times, and then bring it to the center of the photo. Next, you should observe the behavior of the flame near each individual photo. If there is no flap, then the flame will be uniform and soft, but if there is, the fire will twitch, crackle, smoke, and may even go out. This speaks of the influence of magic.
2. Check with water and eggs. This diagnostic method can be used for both baptized and unbaptized people. You need to take an egg that a chicken recently laid and spring water. Eggs from the supermarket and water from the tap should not be taken. Break an egg into a transparent glass filled with water so that the yolk remains intact. Then they place the glass on the crown of the person who suspects it is cold. After 5 minutes, see what happened to the protein. If a lapel was made, then cracks and cobwebs will appear on its surface, which rush upward.

To detect coldness, a ritual should be performed with the egg.
If the lover is not nearby, then the diagnosis is carried out using a photo. For this purpose, you will need to get a recent photo of a man and roll an egg on it in a circular motion in different directions. This process should take at least 15-20 minutes, then break the egg into a glass of water and carry out the diagnosis in the same way as the previous case. The water should be at room temperature.

1. Diagnostics using runes. To do this, you will need a complete set (24 runes) of the Futhark or runic alphabet. You can buy a kit or make it yourself. If you make your own runes, you can cut them on wooden blocks or draw them on paper or stones. First you need to figure out the wording of the question, and then, without peeking, take 1 rune from the bag. The following runes indicate the guidance of the lapel: Eyvaz, Hagalaz, Laguz, Perth and Turisaz.
2. Check using Tarot cards. First you need to formulate a question, and then, without peeking, draw a card from the deck. The presence of magical interference will be indicated by the following cards: Devil, Tower, Death, High Priestess, Magician, Moon, Strength.

Preparation and rules for conducting rituals to relieve the cold from a husband

Before you start relieving colds at home, you need to familiarize yourself with some rules for conducting such rituals:

1. Such rituals are performed only on the waning moon. If you do it while the moon is growing, there will be no result.
2. It is necessary to strictly follow all the rules that are described in the ritual.
3. You cannot change the words in the text of the lapel unless this is provided for by the conditions.
4. You need to read the text clearly and in one breath.
5. No one should know about the ritual either before or after it is performed.
6. You need to have pure thoughts and good intentions, otherwise the result will be the opposite.

Rituals to relieve cold are carried out during the waning moon.

How to take the chill off your wife or girlfriend

You can remove the cold from a woman using ordinary coarse salt, bought for metal money. The ritual is carried out before noon on Wednesday, Friday or Saturday - they take a little salt in their right hand and read the text:

“Light, white, pure salt! Cleanse us from evil spells, spells, and spells. Take away quarrels and troubles, disagreements and misunderstandings, let peace reign in our family! Let (name) always love me, both nearby and at a distance. Amen".

This salt is gradually added to food, sprinkled on clothes, on the floor under the head of the bed, stored in a dark place, in an opaque jar or bag.

Another ancient conspiracy is carried out like this: you need to wait for the waning moon - preferably the sky is clear. Around midnight you need to go outside and, looking in the direction of the moon, say:

“I will get up, blessing myself, I will go out, crossing myself. From the gate, turn into an open field, into a wide expanse. I see with my eyes how fire and flames are coming towards me, a fast brawling wind is flying. You, wind, fire and flame, will do me a great service: do not burn the green forests and meadows. The wind is violent, do not fan the flames, but do a faithful service for me. Kindle, kindle my wife (name), so that her cold heart will catch fire, and love will warm up in her eyes for me (name). Just as a fish feels sick on the sand without water, so it would be hard for her without me. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Now and forever, forever and ever. Amen".

Afterwards you need to return home and immediately go to bed with the thought of the woman from whom the lapel is being removed.

Rituals options

There are various variants of rituals. The choice should be at your own discretion.

For millet and a scarf

This opening takes place at noon. A white cloth is spread on the table and millet is scattered on it. Then the following words are said:

I conjure all the bad and evil things that were sent to the spouse (name) to return back, I give the millet. May happiness and love return to your life. Let a white streak begin in life, like this scarf.

Next, the scarf with millet is tied and thrown into the street far from the house.

With the help of runes

Such rituals are not held on any day of the week, but only on Monday, Wednesday or Friday. Only on these days are they effective. They require a lot of energy, and sometimes a drop of blood may be needed, after which the next day you may feel a loss of strength, nausea, and dizziness. Therefore, you cannot perform more than 1 ritual per week.

To remove a love spell from a man, you can use runes.

Laguz, Evaz Uruz, Berkana - these runic symbols need to be written on any thing your husband has been wearing for a long time and which is imbued with his energy. They should be written with charcoal or a simple pencil.

This object should be in sight of the man all the time, he can touch it, pick it up, but he should not see the runes. This effective method will help get rid of the cold.

By photo

For such a ceremony you will need a church candle and a printed photo of your lover. To perform the ritual, you need to wait until nightfall and retire to a room.

A photograph is placed on the table, and then a lighted candle is held in the air, drawing a cross. During this, you need to read the “Our Father” prayer.

The flame should be light and calm. If soot appears, a crackling sound appears, or the flame begins to twitch, then you need to cross yourself and re-cross the photo. This procedure lasts until the candle burns out.

For tea

To eliminate colds you will need the following medicinal herbs:

• dandelion leaves;
• liquorice root;
• rosehip berries.

You can use both dry and fresh parts of plants. All ingredients in equal proportions must be placed in a container, mixed thoroughly and poured with boiling water.

The infusion should be stirred for 10 minutes, saying:

I pour clean boiling water over the herbs, impart strength to the decoction, and remove evil gossip, slander and spells. Let them go into dense forests, impenetrable wilds forever, and in return they will receive joy, happiness and love.

After this, the tincture needs to be strained and added 1-2 tsp. honey to add flavor. The drink should be divided into 2 equal parts, one of which you should drink yourself, and the other you should give to your beloved man. The ritual will take effect in a week.

For salt

You should wait until noon and take a large handful of salt in your right palm and read over it:

Light, pure, white salt! Cleanse us from spells, slander, spells and evil spells. Take away quarrels, disagreements and misunderstandings, let peace reign in the family! We will always love each other, both nearby and at a distance. Amen.

The spell must be cast three times. The charmed salt is placed in a separate container and put into food for your husband and yourself.

How to independently remove a husband's lapel from his wife

First of all, you need to choose a suitable ritual and carefully prepare for it. Removing the lapel is, first of all, cleansing on a spiritual and physical level. Rituals of this kind are performed only on the waning moon.

The most important condition for removing the lapel is a strong and irresistible desire to help your husband and snatch him from the tenacious clutches of the insidious homewrecker.

Important! When rivals decide to apply a lapel, they do not take into account the fact that it is difficult to destroy a strong union of two souls and hearts. And the man will suffer greatly, but will not leave his family and will not leave his wife.

Removing the lapel sounds like an ordinary magical ritual, but in fact, a woman who decides to remove the lapel on her own must be strong in spirit and have a large supply of internal energy. The power of spell words only works if you invest all your energy into them without reserve. Otherwise, the ritual will turn into an ordinary theatrical action without further implementation.

It is important to love your other half very much and to strongly desire to return to your previous relationship. If you do not have confidence in your own abilities, then it is better to seek help from specialists.

After performing the lapel removal ritual, a woman may feel unwell. Nausea and weakness may occur. This is normal. You will have to give up too much of your own energy to win the man and his will from the homewrecker.

How to remove a lapel yourself using herbs

You can remove the lapel with the help of herbs. Since ancient times, people have endowed plants with special powers and treated them with respect. To remove the lapel you will need herbs from environmentally friendly places:

• rose hip;
• licorice;
• dandelion roots.

Important! It is better to buy herbs from grandmothers outside the city, and not in a pharmacy. Herbs collected by hand have a special strength and quality in terms of ecology.

You can remove the lapel by brewing tea for your husband from these herbs and reading a strong spell over him:

“I took clean water and datura herbs. I’ve made a decoction and I’ll give it to you. I will take away the evil eye and embrace you with my wing. My plan is strong, and my word is sealed in stone!”

You need to give the decoction to your husband. It is possible to remove the lapel without your husband's knowledge, but it is problematic. The problem lies in the secret performance and implementation of rituals. But here you need to look at the situation, each of them is unique.

How to remove your husband's lapel yourself using millet and a scarf

You can remove the lapel using this ritual at noon. To do this, you need to spread a white scarf on the table and sprinkle millet on it. The following words are spoken:

“I send back everything evil, everything black that was sent to my husband (name) and give away the millet. Happiness will return to life, it will turn into a white scarf!”

The scarf with millet should be thrown out onto the street away from the house. This ritual will help remove the lapel and cleanse the husband’s energy.

How to independently remove a husband's lapel from his wife using cold water

You can roll back the spell from your husband using ice water. You need to pour it into a glass and say the words:

“The water is cold, the soul is hot. The water of the spell word will cool and freeze. Thoughts will return back to where they came from and to the person from whom they came. Key. Lock. Language!".

The removal of the lapel does not end there. Water should be poured under any female tree: aspen, birch, rowan. For a more effective effect, the ritual is carried out for 3 days. The water for the ritual must be clean and very cold.

How to remove a husband's lapel from his wife using salt and a church candle

Since ancient times, salt has been considered a conductor of energy. She absorbs information well. It is used for both white and black rituals.

You can neutralize bewitching with the help of this ritual quite quickly. You need to buy a small candle in the church. The candle needs to be lit. At home, a woman takes a grain of salt in her hand, as much as will fit in her palm, and says the words:

“Salt is white, powerful and pure. As you are pure, so we are pure (names). Help me remove the lapel and let love shine. You protect us from her insidious and evil one!”

Salt should be put in a separate dish and added to all dishes that the husband eats. As soon as the salt runs out, the ritual will be considered completed. That is why you should not take a very large amount of salt, but only such a volume that fits in a woman’s palm.

How to remove a lapel from your husband with the help of prayers

Believers can be helped by prayers to remove the lapel. But you need to understand that with this approach to solving the problem, willpower and faith must be very strong.

The simplest prayer for removing a lapel is the “Our Father.” The prayer must be read for 40 days. At the same time, you need to hold a small candle and a photograph of your husband in your hands. The prayer must be read 40 times until the candle burns out. Such a prayer will cleanse the husband’s energy and help get rid of external intrusion.

Another way to get rid of negativity is a visit to 7 temples. You need to go to seven temples in one day. You need to walk and not talk to anyone. Therefore, it is better to choose monasteries that are located close to each other. In every church you need to light a candle for your husband’s health and read the “Our Father” prayer. It’s quite a capacious ritual, but it really helps to restore the old relationship.

Important! Before proceeding to the sacraments with the help of prayers, a woman needs to cleanse herself internally. And for this it is advisable to fast for at least 10 days.

You cannot use foul language either verbally or mentally. A woman must also cleanse herself spiritually and physically before she begins to help her husband and remove the lapel with the help of prayers and God’s blessing.

Attention! You can also ask your confessor for advice. He will probably suggest covenants and psalms that it is advisable to read along with prayers in order to get rid of negativity.

How to remove a lapel from a distance

In order to get rid of a spell at a distance, you can use any of the above rituals. But only those in which the husband’s participation is not required. For example, in the salt ritual you need to add salt to food and feed it to your husband. This cannot be done from a distance.

There is also a very strong ritual of egg rolling. But it will also require the consent and participation of a man. The man is seated with his back to the door and the egg is rolled over his body 33 times counterclockwise.

Therefore, to get rid of negativity from a distance, any ritual, including prayer, is suitable. The main thing is for a woman to be confident in her abilities.

How to remove a black lapel from a person on bread

This is a very old and ancient ritual. To implement this, the woman bakes bread with her own hands. It should be homemade bread, not store-bought bread. In this case, the dough must be kneaded during the day and the bread baked at night.

As soon as the bread is ready, you need to go outside and feed it to the birds, while you need to concentrate as much as possible and say the words:

“I came out as a beautiful maiden, I feed God’s creatures. These birds are my help. Our love will not weaken, but will strengthen. No one will separate us: neither an evil rival, nor a kind maiden. May we live in peace, love and harmony, forever and ever!”

While a woman crumbles bread and reads words, she should mentally return to the happiest and most tender moments of her life with her husband. You should imagine a happy and loving family in every detail.

Attention! This ritual comes from ancient times and is considered very powerful for getting rid of black forces even in the most severe cases.

Powerful Prayers

Before you start reading prayers, you need to observe a 10-day fast. The Lord's Prayer will help remove the lapel. It is read for 40 days, holding a candle and a photo of your husband in your hands. After this period, the candle should burn out completely.

Some love spells can be removed through prayer.

You can also use another method - visit 7 churches in 1 day. You can't talk to anyone along the way. In every church they light a candle for the health of the spouse and read the “Our Father” prayer.

How does a lapel affect relationships?

Lapel witchcraft destroys a marriage gradually.

At first, people love each other, but they begin to quarrel more and more often and lose interest in their partner. Men begin to stay late at work, women meet with their friends more often and refuse sex. Often the second spouse does not attach importance to what is happening and does not try to correct the situation.

Gradually, the husband and wife become increasingly distant from each other. Quarrels arise more often. Sex becomes rare or disappears completely. People spend their free time separately. Sometimes the bewitched stop talking to each other.